There are many things I would like to see in women I date but as I am getting older there are some things that are a must. We all have our own ideas about the perfect girl, looks body, personality, things we have in common, what we like to do for fun. These are traits that everyone looks at but what I am talking about here are more specific ones. I want a girl who is into wearing spandex and into having me do the same. I want a girl who enjoys whipping out a strap on and fucking me after I have done her. I want her to be anal inquisitive. Remember we are talking the perfect girl and everyone has their own ideas about it and no one is anywhere near perfect including me that said let’s add to the list I want her to be into roll playing, feminization, sissy play, maybe a little bondage, I want her to enjoy being spanked and enjoy spanking me. I would enjoy it if she was into girls too along with seeing me with other men. I would want an extremely open and have her be a sexual explorer. I would love to hear about your perfect girl or your perfect man!
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My preferences generally lean. I don’t like really thin girls but I like a nice hourglass figure. I don’t usually go for girls that are top heavy, as I’m more of an ass man. I think black/asian, black/Latin, or black/white mix have a beautiful skin tone. So my perfect woman would be a mix, more of a bubble butt, decent size breasts and a huge fan of sexual exploration. Id like it if she was into exhibitionism, orgies, strap on play and other things. Id love if my perfect woman was a Brazilian or thong bikini kind of girl that loved to show off her body. But Id also want a girl I could spend time with without sexual contact. Hard to find Id say.
As I pivot toward the gay side, the perfect man – or men – is my focus. I love a man who’s in touch with his masculine and feminine sides, and paradoxes drive me wild. A guy who’s more soft and feminine who can take charge and fuck me with abandon. A guy who’s tough and opens his ass to my waiting dick. A guy who fucks me with a dildo or strap-on, or his own cock. And a guy with great feet – and there are so many exciting varieties – who can fuck me with his big toe, or stroke my dick to orgasm with both his feet. I like a guy who’ll go barefoot with me – not everywhere, but casual places where it’s not outlandish.
I’m into all sorts of guys – and having a bit of a belly can be a real turn-on. I like to think of sex with men as recreational – sort of the gay version of what some straight guys might do – playing on a baseball team, hunting, etc. Getting together with a group for a mutual jerk-off/edging session is one example of that recreation. So is an all-out fucking and sucking orgy. One thing I’m not into is drugs. The hottest sex is with a clear head, and the hottest guys, for me, aren’t into drugs.
I have a special guy in my life who’s very kind and caring and bit of a bad boy, too. He turns me on, and he’s okay that lots of other guys turn me on, too. He gets turned on by that, and I get off on what gets him off.
Does this sound too good to be true? Well, it didn’t come easy, and it took a lot of working on ourselves and our relationship and developing trust and safety. We talk about everything. If either of us dallies with someone else, we report back to the other, and that gets us going with each other.
Sometimes the hottest sex is with each other when we know others are watching – others who we know would like to watch. The hottest fantasy is the time we had sex in the pool at our old house, several years ago, and we knew that the next-door gay guy could look down into our pool area. I in particular, being the unabashed exhibitionist, totally got off on the idea that he could watch my boyfriend blow me to orgasm, and hear me moaning and wailing with abandon. So I’m blessed to have a man who trust me and whom I trust. Again, it wasn’t always like this – and who knows what the future will bring? But what we’ve developed is a bit of heaven on earth.
Maybe he’ll stumble upon this and recognize the description!
Mediterranean, ladylike but with a desire to test herself to please her man. Honest but complimentary, athletic and toned with symmetrical measurement from all angles. Frisky but not slutty, well sometimes a bit slutty. Thanks
My ideal girl is 10 or so years younger, good looking, tight, toned and fit. I like a hard gym body with a banging bubble butt. Filthy mind that knows how to use it, into pleasing me in EVERY way possible, just as I am her, if that’s using toys and having them used on her, great
I’m vain as fuck and like to look my best, I expect my woman to be the same, in public sexy and maybe a little revealing, nothing slutty, in private, a complete fucking dirty sex whore. I’ve a real thing for thongs especially slingshots, both on myself and my girl, she will be bought MANY! so she must be willing to wear them in public and private. If she enjoys showing me off half as much as I do her, that’s perfect. MFM & FMF, a bonus.
That said in 28 years of dating, relationships and 1 marrige I’ve yet to find THE perfect girl, I think I’ve just become too kinky!!! I blame one of the girls I used to work with and dated a few years back, her and our boss, they introduced me to ALL SORTS of new things; butt plugs, strapons, ass hooks, penis plugs, bondage, cumming in guys mouths, to name but a few! OMG kinky as fuck! It was her that bought me my first Koala suit! Sadly she had to return home to look after a sick relative…… I nearly followed her she was that good.
I’m now dating a beautiful Serbian girl I met last summer when out tanning in a ridiculously small, slightly cock exposing thong. She’d set up very close by and once stripped to a tiny g-string herself she complemented me on my choice of suit saying she liked how it exposed a bit of me and my cockring, with a comment like that clearly we hit it off. 16 years my junior she used to be a pole dancer/stripper and do a bit of soft porn, she’s seem most things along the way and luckily for me she’s now only to happy to oblige me! She’s now a PT, at 5’10 with a 35″ inside leg, fuck her ass looks hot in a thong. And yes she loves having it banged, and the best bit, when I’m finished and her ass is dripping my cum she has no problem harmessing up & banging mine. She’s bought me MANY extreme style thongs and the only full backed suits I now own are your “orgasm bikinis” that she’s bought me, we all know their secret! She loves the micro thongs & slingshots I buy her and is only to happy to tan in them as long as she picks the suit I’m to wear, invariably a custom made ass spark revealing one-sided thong, sorry Michael not one of yours, you don’t make that style……… yet!!:-) she gets off massively by making me wear your orgasm bikini to her gym pool though, and I’m only to happy to oblige, sex in the communal locker room after with the thought we might be seen is always hot.
About the only thing she won’t do is MFM, not even watch, the only cocks going up my ass or down my throat are her silicon ones she’s not into 2 guys getting it on, not her thing. Funny really coz I always get the invite to join in when its some girl she’s brought home to eat the pussy of.
Not quite perfect but damn close